I'm seriously already thinking of retiring and selling this cosplay, I... ugh, I do not feel comfortable cosplaying girls unless they have a more androgynous/man-ish figure like mine :/ Also, yes, that is my real hair (obviously curled a bit more though I am a natural frizzball/curly thing). If anything I love this cape and the contacts, though. Capes are the best thing ever.
Oh pssssh! LADEH you do not look man-ish! You can make yourself look that way through your costumes and make up, but you also have the ability to look super womanly! I think you can pull off men and women both great.